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一种爱情叫做暧昧,http://www.dxs89.com
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既不是友情也不是真正的爱情，他高于友情又和爱情有一段距离.互相关心，互相牵挂，互相暧昧.这是一种高尚的还是低级趣味的关系?你知道吗?
无论是否单身，人都是以个体生存在社会上的.人也是有独立思维和有独立思想的，但是很多事情又不能独立完成，需要相互帮助和相互协调.无论是否单身，你都要有自己兴趣爱好，你都要有自己的工作圈子和社交圈子.无论是否单身，你都要与人沟通，你都要倾诉.
有这样一种关系叫做暧昧.
在我受委屈的时候，在没人陪我逛超市的时候，在我受到打击的时候，在我需要意见的时候，有这样一个人……我们是朋友,我们貌似恋人,我们不是恋人.我们是朋友.有一种关系叫做暧昧.我们在对方的面前可以撕去一切虚伪的面具.我们手拉手走在深夜空旷的大街上.我们一起推着购物车.我们在KTV声嘶力竭的吼着...不做淑女，不做绅士，只要做一个快乐的人.我们依然是朋友，我们依然不是恋人.我们永远是朋友，我们永远不会成为恋人.但是我们依然暧昧着...有这样一种关系叫做暧昧……
有一种爱情与责任无关，披一件荒唐的外衣，它就成了暧昧。王菲在新专辑里唱出最暧昧的一种关系：我把心给了你，身体给了他;我把情节给了你，结局给了他。有哲人说：爱是无聊的沙漠中的危险绿洲。而事实上，这一片绿洲往往是虚幻的。太多的眼神闪烁，明明有喜欢的成分，却永远离爱情有一步之遥。或者是它真的太危险了，太使害怕受伤的人们怰于靠近。
有这样一个女人，优雅知礼，身边不乏追求者，却始终寂寞一人。问她是否过于挑剔，她苦笑着摇头，说出那样一种关系：离暧昧很近，离爱情很远。谁都持股观望，不愿先抛出手，谁都在一个最安全的模式含混的、拖泥带水的、欲拒还迎的，醉生梦死的。这些通通是暧昧的外衣。什么是安全的?那就是不需责任的、靠近、离开、爱恋、分离都不用交待，这难道不是爱吗?可是明明有慌张的心跳。是爱吗?那些暗示频频投递。那些问候心怀鬼胎。如同隔了雾的花，云端美丽，只是空不得天明散去那一刻。它们离爱情，真正的爱情实在很远。
当然灵魂是寂寞的，不可否认它有挣扎的时刻。所以这类感情在这个年代日愈增多。它的存在，让感情的面目突然含糊起来，说不清道不明。倘若仅止于灵魂上的牵扯，这份暧昧就干净多了。
而现实是：暧昧的欲望正在强烈的道德谴责下快乐地苟活着。当谁也不愿先把心交托出来时，暧昧永远是暧昧，成就不了一场美好的厮守，每一个人都把心紧紧地攥在自己手里，这样便谁也腾不出手来接住别人的心。
Is neither friendship nor true love, he was more than friendship and love also have some distance. Mutual concern and worried about each other ambiguous. This is a noble or vulgar relations? You know?
Whether or not single, who are all individuals living in society. Who is also an independent thinking and independent thought, but a lot of things can not be completed independently, the need for mutual help and coordination. Whether or not single, you have to have their own hobbies, your work must have their own circles and social circle. whether or not single, you have to communicate with others, you have to talk.
There is such a relationship is called ambiguous.
I wronged when I am in no Renpei water and soil, when I hit the time when I needed advice, there is such a person ... ... we are friends, we seemingly lovers, we are not lovers. We be friends. There's a relationship is called ambiguous. We can be torn off each other in front of all the hypocritical mask. We are open late at night to go hand in hand on the streets. join us in pushing the shopping cart. We growled KTV shouted themselves hoarse in the ... not do lady, will not do gentleman, just want to make a happy person. we are still friends, we still are not lovers. we will always be friends, we will never become a lover. But we are still dubious of such a relationship with ... is called ambiguous ... ...
There is a responsibility to love and nothing to do with Phi a ridiculous coat, it will become ambiguous. Faye Wong to sing in the new album's most ambiguous of a relationship: I gave you heart, body gave him; I gave you the plot, in the end gave him. There philosopher said: Love is the danger of boredom in the desert oasis. In fact, this oasis is often illusory. Too many eyes flashing, even when an element like, but there is always one step away from love. or is it really too dangerous, too afraid to hurt people so close to the Xuan Yu.
There is such a woman, elegant ceremony known by his side no lack of suitors, but it has always been lonely one person. Asked her if she was too picky, she says with a smile and shake his head out like a relationship: from ambiguous close, far away from love. Anyone holding wait, are unwilling to throw hands, no one in one of the most secure mode of vague, and dragging its feet, and a warm welcome, and here to live in a dream of death. These are ambiguous coat them altogether. What is safe? That is without responsibility, close to the left, love, separation do not have to explain, is that not love?, But obviously there is panic heartbeat. Is the love? That imply frequent delivery. Those greetings having motives. As a separation of the fog flowers, clouds beautiful, but not dawn air dispersed at that moment. They are away from love, true love is very far.
Of course, is a lonely soul, it is undeniable that it has struggled moment. Therefore, these feelings are, in this age are becoming ever more increasing. Its existence, so that the face of a sudden vague feeling up, can not tell Road is unknown. If limited to the soul's involved, this ambiguity on the cleaner.
The reality is: ambiguous desires are strong moral condemnation of the next happily Gouhuo. When no one wants to entrust heart should first come out, the ambiguity is always ambiguous, success can not be a good Sishou, everyone regarded heart firmly grip in our own hands, thus no helping hand to anyone Teng catch someone's heart.
，一种爱情叫做暧昧